Leery Lessons

Things this week have been pretty off, at work, at home, and life in general.

A friend of mine (whom shall remain nameless) has had a pretty strange experience too. So she met a guy in late January and they would hang out every couple of weeks. She told me that things were going great. Then, just recently when they were together, he said that he'd been thinking about what she had said the last time they were together (my friend had asked where things were going...if they were going to be dating or just hanging out). He proceeds to tell her that he wants to be exclusive with her and so she agrees. Then she tells me this evening, that when she sent him a message to clarify his meaning of 'exclusive', he sent a defensive message back, saying, "if you're questioning me from the night before...then never mind because I don't have time for this." I felt pretty bad for my friend and wondered what was this guy's deal!!?? She later tells me that she felt horrible and sent him 4 text messages and 1 instant message on aim to clear things up between them, and didn't hear anything back from him.

Personally, it's a love/hate relationship with guys in my personal life. Only because sometimes, they're great, then other times, they don't pick up there phone when you call them or when you send them text messages. If only we didn't need them to reproduce an off spring.

Is it too much to ask...for a man...who has a job, has goals/aspirations in life, wants me, is sincere, returns my calls/texts/instant messages, likes to go out on dates, enjoys my company, is confident yet not too cocky, listens when I speak and there's great chemistry between us?

"Nothing is worth more than this day." -Goethe